1. Not giving up on individuals who gave up on you. Your cussed coronary heart believes in completely happy endings and it could actually’t depart tales damaged. You don’t like to surrender on anybody you care about and also you all the time need to make it work since you consider within the goodness of their coronary heart (it doesn’t matter what their actions let you know.)
2. Why you may’t let go. You possibly can’t simply let go, you may’t simply transfer on, you want solutions, you want closure, you want your coronary heart to utterly heal earlier than you may really let go. A cussed coronary heart solely is aware of the best way to maintain on however sucks at letting go.
three. Seeing one of the best in individuals. You see what you need to see, you see what you consider and there’s no approach anybody can persuade you in any other case. You’ll reasonably take a danger and get harm than assume that somebody is simply unhealthy for you with out giving them a good likelihood.
four. Repeating the identical errors over and over. You tend to maintain doing the identical issues repeatedly even when it’s not working for you since you’re both obsessed with it otherwise you consider that a kind of days, you’re going to get it proper. You possibly can’t stop the stuff you love.
5. Making an attempt to repair individuals. Although you actually can’t, you by no means hand over attempting, you all the time need to be the explanation somebody modified or somebody discovered happiness once more. You’re feeling such as you’re on a mission to make individuals’s lives higher.
6. Having unrealistic expectations. You observe your cussed coronary heart more often than not and hearts wish to dream and picture good eventualities, generally this might delude you or make you assume that actuality may mirror your fantasies, however you don’t know the best way to be lifelike both.
7. Breaking the principles. Whether or not in relationship or in life. You don’t know the best way to be sensible or keep on with the principles. You love to do issues your approach even when it’s the flawed approach.
eight. Appearing on impulse. You don’t all the time know the best way to be rational or assume issues by, particularly while you’re upset. That’s why individuals assume you’re over emotional or delicate but it surely’s actually since you care deeply about issues and folks.
9. Giving too many possibilities. Cussed hearts wish to forgive, they wish to maintain giving possibilities till they lastly get what they need. That’s why you’re all the time speaking to individuals you shouldn’t be speaking to, reuniting together with your exes and even speaking to those who ghosted you.
10. Why you by no means change. Everybody retains telling you that your coronary heart is simply getting you in bother however you don’t need to change it. You don’t desire a passive coronary heart. Your coronary heart solely beats when it’s cussed and when it has one thing to struggle for.
Rania Naim is a poet and creator of the brand new e book All The Phrases I Ought to Have Stated, accessible here.